Just One

It is so hard to be optimistic in the relationship world when all you constantly see is the same thing over and over! I have yet to fall in love, but when I see other people who have done so, and it turns out bad, it's really discouraging. It reminds me of a scene from the movie "Baby Boy" when the mother tell Yvette that love can make you feel so high but at the same it can also bring you down and make you feel so low. It leaves me to wonder is it worth it? Do you have to go through all those hard times and live miserably, just to feel that good moment? Or just to have a few happy times. If the bad is outweighing the good, that should tell you something.....leave. It is so hard to put your trust into someone without that suspicion and lingering thought of infidelity and dishonesty. I know that not all men are like because that's impossible right? Well, you damn sure could have fooled me! I see the same problems in so many relationships! All these guys want to have their cake and eat it, along with the ice cream and strawberries too! It's absolutely not fair, and it is cruel to the woman who is giving her all and bending over backwards to make sure you are happy in the relationship! My main thing is, if you are feeling unhappy or there is a problem, break up before cheating on the side and take the necessary breaks that couples find helpful to an overwhelming relationship. It may not be easy at the time, but it will be much harder in the long run if it is not addressed sooner than later. So just like the quote above: I want one, just one to show me that they're not all the same.....