....if I would care more or be more upset if my boyfriend or husband left me for a man, or would it be the equal feeling of betrayal had he decided to be unfaithful with a woman?
Initially I feel like, of course I'd be more upset had it been a man, but either way, he has cheated. But I do have to say that I do think that the shock of finding out that the man I love is not even interested in woman would make me even more angry. I think this is because I would feel like I had been betrayed on more than one level. If he cheated with a woman, I would be very pissed, please believe me, but finding out that not only was he cheating but that it was with someone of this own sex? That would probably send me over the edge. I am aware that it is the same thing to some, cheating is cheating, but that would just be a little different for me. I would not be ok with it either way, but finding out that the man I thought was straight was gay would be a "double whammy," and a little much to handle while simultaneously finding out that he had a lover that was male. That's just my view on things? What about you?
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Well, I lost my kids mom to a lesbain so...you already know what I think. LOL.
wow Don....that's deep, yeah I already know your thought on the issue then!
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